Achieving Full Potential
Helping people to reach their full
potential.
You may think that
"high-performance coaching" means coaching for high performers – in
other words, people who, for whatever reason, have been identified as
"star talent."
Actually, high-performance coaching
is about helping all people reach their full potential, in any area of their
lives. For the manager as coach, this means working with people to improve
their performance at work.
High-performance coaching may also
involve working with other people within your organization – collaborating with
other managers and leaders to make the workplace a high-performance
organization, one that helps everybody to perform at their best.
The approaches and techniques used
in high-performance coaching borrow heavily from the worlds of sport and the
military – areas where optimal performance is key. High-performance coaching
conversations usually start with finding out people's "starting
points" – their visions or life ambitions. Then, it moves on to explore
the directions in which people need to move to achieve those visions, and the
steps they need to take now to do so.
When
to Use High-Performance Coaching
How often do we think we know what
we want to achieve, only to discover that gaps in willpower and self-discipline
hold us back?
High-performance coaching helps
people explore their motivation, and overcome the blockers that hold them back.
It's about both support and challenge. It's particularly useful for the
following:
·
Long-range
career or life planning –
While some people may prefer not to have a "life plan," there's
robust evidence that shows that people who have clear plans and goals are more
likely to be successful in the long term.
·
Navigating
career change points –
An example of a career change point could be the transition from being
primarily seen as a manager to being seen as a leader – someone who offers
clear guidance and genuine inspiration. Coaching can help people navigate these
change points more successfully.
·
Making
fundamental changes to performance or behavior – This involves the equivalent
of athletes breaking bad habits in their game, and relearning basic skills the
right way.
·
Handling
major life setbacks –
High-performance coaching can help people recover from major business or
personal setbacks. In particular, it can help people address work-life
imbalances, or deal with major episodes of stress or burnout.
Note:
As
our article What is
Coaching? highlights, coaching typically works
best when the coachee (person being coached) sets the agenda, and is prompted
by the coach to develop their own solutions. However, you may find that you
need to take a more direct approach with high-performance coaching.
High-Performance
Coaching Skills and Tools
Here is a useful checklist of things
that you should do when helping others to be their best:
·
Be
respectful of the coachee as an individual.
·
Be
respectful of the coachee's skills and goals in life.
·
Be
honest in providing constructive and challenging feedback, and set high goals
that the coachee is likely to achieve.
·
Be
aware of your own ego and agenda, so that these don't get in the coachee's way.
·
Be
comfortable with a variety of tools that help you explore the coachee's
perspective. Examples include the GROW Model ,
the Flow Model, and a simple formula drawn from one of the most valuable books
in coaching, "The Inner Game of Tennis" by W. Timothy Gallwey. The
formula is:
Performance
= Potential - Interference
We'll look at this formula, and the
Flow Model, in more detail below.
The
Flow Model
The Flow Model was
introduced by positive psychologist, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, in his 1990 book
"Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience."
This model shows the emotional state
that we're likely to experience when trying to complete a task, depending on
the perceived difficulty of the challenge, and our perceptions of our skill
levels.
Part of the job of the
high-performance coach is to help coachees acquire and be confident with the
skills they need to achieve their goals. The coach then helps the coachee match
these skills to the task at hand, setting "stretch goals" – goals
that are challenging, but which are possible to achieve.
Emotional
Interference
Remember Gallwey's simple formula:
Performance
= Potential - Interference
Here, "interference"
generally means emotional interference. We may understand our true potential,
but our performance suffers because our emotions get in the way. Some of the
interfering emotions are fear, guilt, and worry.
Let's look at these more closely:
·
Fear – The most obvious and most
inhibiting emotion is fear. While some fear has a basis in reality, many of our
fears are unfounded. Our minds play negative tricks on us to keep us safe, but
also keep us unchallenged and, probably, unfulfilled.
It may take time to deal with a
coachee's fear of a situation, event, or action, but it's hugely beneficial to
do so. Once you identify and discuss people's fears, you weaken the power of
those fears to hold back future activity and performance.
Likewise, it can be useful to
anticipate some worst-case scenarios – such as losing an important sales
contract or even losing your job – because it lets you see what other options
are available. Perhaps the sales contract wasn't as profitable as other
contracts you could pursue if you had time to spend with new customers. Perhaps
losing a job is the first step toward a new career, even within your current
organization. Dealing with self-doubt and fear of failure is one of the most
valuable areas to explore with a coachee.
·
Guilt – This is one of the key
emotions driving inappropriate work-life balance. If someone routinely works
later than other people, it's often evidence of not being able to say no –
which, in turn, is typically based on some form of guilt for not having accomplished
what was asked for.
·
Worry – This is another key emotion
that gets in the way of good performance. Some people seem to worry about
everything, including the fact that they're worrying! Worry can lead to
physical problems such as poor sleep, bad eating habits, and ultimately,
exhaustion. We can't be effective for very long if we have these problems.
Coaches can help coachees see their
true potential and eliminate the effect of interfering emotions. Talking about
emotions during coaching will help. Also, try these tips:
·
Think
of coachees as athletes who want to move to the next level in their game. Half
of the coaching job is listening and understanding what drives people, and
appreciating what emotions they're feeling. The other half of the job is
working with coachees to stretch their performance and explore the skills they
need to be their very best.
·
Remember
that high-performance coaching can and should be fun. So look for issues, and
help people imagine what could be possible, as part of the process.
Key
Points
High-performance coaching is about
helping people to achieve their very best. It's particularly useful for
long-range career or life planning, for dealing with career change points, for
making changes to performance or behavior, and for dealing with major life
setbacks.
High-performance coaching
conversations usually start with finding out people's "starting
points" - their visions or life ambitions. You can then look at helping
the coachee obtain a balanced set of skills, while looking at emotional
interferences such as their worries and fears.
Overall, high-performance coaching
involves challenging coachees as well as supporting them, so that they can
build their skills and improve their performance in a balanced way.
Source: http://www.mindtools.com
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